我的一号爱人

他从来都不是个伟人；他甚至比平凡的人还要更平凡。关于他的点点滴滴，我也只是从他口述中得知。他幼时家境贫穷，他很小就帮忙家里寻找生计；也因为家里供不起，他的学历并不高。虽然如此，他很努力工作，给我们他所能够给予的。

因此，我爱他。

他好像什么都没有；没有房、没有地也没有钱。但是，他从不曾让我们挨饿。只要我想吃的，想要的，他都会尽可能满足我。他常说：“女生胖一些比较好看。”有时，肚子饿了，懒惰病却发作，尤其是打工回来，身心疲惫时，就算厨房已经空荡荡，他依然有办法变魔术，把牛奶变出来。也许有一天，我们会穷得连牛奶也买不起，但是我相信，只要我饿了，就算把他身上的肉割下来他都在所不惜。

所以，我很爱他。

他是个十足的大男人，比牛还固执，只要是他认为对的，无论如何他都会争论到底。我也很执着，两头牛已吵架，战火比世界大战还要激烈，就像全世界都快摧毁了似的。但是，最后他都会先让步，说：“你赢你赢！”虽然心里还是非常不服气。他固执，我就比他更固执。因为我明白他遇见我就像冰遇到火——溶化了。他对其他人都无法忍让，理直气壮，唯独对我忍气吞声。

就这样，我更爱他了。

他很爱碎碎唸；从东唸到西，从早唸到晚。尤其是我乱花钱的隐犯了的时候，他更是从街市唸到回家，从吃饭唸到睡觉。除此之外，他很会挑，总是嫌东嫌西。每当我说我想送他礼物，他总会责备我奢侈。但是，固执如我，哪会理他的劝。很奇怪的是，他从来都不会嫌弃我送的任何礼物，而是很欣然、很高兴、很惊喜地一一接受。我很清楚，他其实也很想有时能有个人在特别的日子里送些礼物给他。人之常情嘛！任谁都是这么想的！只是，他不想我把辛苦赚来的钱都花掉，所以才选择口是心非。

因此，我非常地爱他。

我不喜欢别人抽烟，他却偏偏饭后一根烟，屡劝不改。每次答应戒烟后又抽烟，所幸的是他没有越抽越凶，不然我铁定把他的香烟换成饼干！虽然他有一大堆的坏习惯，什么都没有，但是他很体贴。他晓得做家务的繁琐，所以他不认为家务是女人的责任而把它推向我。反之，他常常帮忙洗衣、收衣服、叠衣服……他从不因而觉得丢脸，还努力的劝说其他大男人做家务。在他的感染下，好多对家务有歧视的男人都开始了他们的家务之旅。

他的了解，让我不得不爱他。

我从来都没有对他说过我爱他；他也不曾对我说类似的话。不过，从他的言行、我的举止中，就能看出那无可取代的爱。除了满得快溢出来的爱，我不会忘记他常告诉我说：“做人要知足。”想对他说：“虽然你什么都没有、什么都不是；可是对我而言，你是一切。因为有你，所以我存在。”

也许在未来的日子里，我会离开，会到外头闯荡，拥有自己幸福的家。即使是这样，也没有人可以改变或代替他在我心里的位置，他永远都是我的一号爱人。因为有他，所以有我。

很感激他，我那最敬爱的爸爸。

也借此祝贺全天下的爸爸：“父亲节快乐！”

p/s:

这篇稿子在19。06。2011的诗华日报《文林风》刊登出来，很高兴能和大家分享^^我爸爸很疼我，就算我是家里最大的，就算我比其他弟妹麻烦~嘻嘻嘻……

Gordon Gathering 09.06.2011

 It was a gathering with some of my classmates and next door classmates at Life Cafe, Jalan Song. Well, I did not know why it was called "Gordon Gathering", but most probably because Gordon was the one who organised the gathering.hahaha. Gordon was our monitor from form1 to form5.
I just simply dressed up myself for the gathering after my work at 10pm! Actually I missed the gathering at Hartz Chicken because I have to work, so 2 of my friends said they are going to meet me later for another cup of tea. well, it turned out with all of those who went to the gathering to Hartz Chicken came to Life Cafe as well. Adumak~ so many friends over there, was quite shocked at that moment.hahaha. there were friends that I had not meet for a long time, like Naomo, Shirlene, Chai Yun, Jimmy and Dickson.
well, around 16 of us, sitting together at the combined tables, chit chatting along and playing game. My gosh!

My friends thought I have not had my dinner yet.well, I never missed the nice food.hahaha. so I ordered a 'chuan cai' mee. a bit spicy but if compared to this spicy noodle, mine is really not a big deal!

this is the special 'ma la' mee where they added 2 plates of additional 'ma la' sauce and extra noodles. and they are going to play a game, well, i considered it a game rather than a trick,hahaha. we play 'scissors, stone and cloth' and those who lose had to eat the noodles!hahaha. Because our group was too big so we divided ourselves into 3 small groups.

I was so unfortunate that I was actually winning all the time so I did not have to eat the noodles, but once I said it out "I always win so I do not have to eat", AHA! It came and I lose! hahaha.

 this is a shoot with Li Xian, one of my best friends.

then, we were too bored. And did not know why, the guys suddenly talked about taking photos with hand gesturing numbers. then, here came us to take photos with numbers!

 

Then they asked us compete see who will win. Hmm, well, later on, facebook vote shown that guy's photo won out! and most of them think that is because of the 5th person, Jimmy's  flying kiss as the main key to win.

well, girls' photo is not bad as well.hahaha

A shoot of my dear friends. Shirlene has never changed, she likes to do expression like this.(the one from right)

then, before we went off, we had a group photo. these are all my good friends and I enjoyed so much with them. The cafe was fulled of our laughter and we did not care whether other customers were annoyed or not.

It was a lovely night.

thanks.

Good luck and gambate to all of them!

all the best!

Jia You!

Kevin & Jess's Wedding! 05.06.2011

5.6.2011, Sunday was my cousin, Kevin's wedding. wow, it has been a week and I just posted it here. Well, I was busy (most of the time and I do not know why)hahaha. It was really a memorable wedding as a lot of cousins came back from other places to attend his wedding. And the wedding ceremony hold somehere near Hui Sing( I forgot the name of the place, I only know it is a church association). That night my sister and I were helping at reception place, and the crowd was so huge that we had to keep smiling and ask people to sign. hahaha, but the experience was good.

Before the ceremony, we had our gathering first in the morning at his house. not much thing to do, just chit chatting and had a feast.hehehe. Not bad. Of course, not forgotten to take some pictures, especially with the main character, the bride!!!

this is one of the picture we took with the bride, she is pretty, isn't it?

 Well, main characters were meant to be busy. Therefore we had not much time to spend with her. So, we just shot ourselves,as all of us would like to, as the camera and iphone were on our hands.hahaha. Why should we lose the opportunity?hahaha.so, we had the non stop shooting session within ourselves.

this is a photo of my family girls: from the left is my beloved mum, 1st sis and 2nd sis.well, all of us do not look alike. hehehe

a closer view of my female siblings: 1st sis, me, 2nd sis.

"mouth du du". hahaha then i just followed, don't really like to act cute though,hahaha

and then, is my big family female photo! the middle lady with red dress is my cousin, she is pretty and knowledgeable. and she is 30 but can you see any aging mark on her face?hahaha she is just like us,YOUNG! and nobody ever says she is not pretty! hahaha

later on, we were so boring and AHA, we saw something!

it was the bride's flower! hehehe.

1,2,3... there were 16 altogether.hahaha, we took this picture on puppose, can you see that? not being shot but asked for shoot.hehehe. so HIPPOCRATES!hahaha

Around 12 something, after the lunch, we went home. We left only some time to prepare ourselves for the ceremony that night, and what made us all mad was that, the current suddenly being cut off! URGH! You know how suffering was that? Luckily I had finished making-up, but those who haven't were really %$@#*... hahaha. After that we went to saloon to set our hair. As all of us went to the same saloon, so the saloon was full of our family members. The scene was a bit funny, it was like our home and we walked here and there and took picture,hahaha.

and this is me, after setting my hair.

quite ok la but my fringe was like, 'HuH? sengek ki~'

and I like this pic because I am sweet in this pic, lalala. taken with my 2nd sis. hehehe

We were actually late for the ceremony as we had to help at the reception place. Fortunately there were not many guests yet when we arrived. so we quickly prepared ourselves and then, crowd started to come in.

Around 7pm, we went into, by following the brides. But I do not have the pictures of that moment, it must be funny.

As we had our meals, we still did not forgot to shoot ourselves some pictures. hehehe. We were holding the wine glass and my sis was drinking wine, as I am allergy to alcohol so I used cola to cover up! hahaha.

then, in the middle of the feast, we were actually somewhat full already. Then we kept asking people for group photo. This was a photo of girls AGAIN.hahaha well, what to do, my family is full of pretties.hehehe.

AGAIN! Group photo of Pretties!wakakaka. well, the prettiest was the bride la~ hahaha. I like her hair decoration so much! hahaha. this photo was taken after the feast, where most of the guests went back already. Only family members left for photograph sessions. hehehe. 

Actually I had taken some of my own family pictures but they were in another camera, so, I CAN'T upload it here! hahaha. Next time perhaps? hehehe.

well, It was tiring, but it was nice as all of us gathered together and chit-chatting. But I bet the brides must be veerrryyyy tired lu! hehehe. 

 well, who will be the next one who marry? Certainly would not be me! Marriage is not in my dictionary yet.hahaha.
so,
Good luck and Gambate!
Have a nice day!