梦游记

Life is Dream Walking; I dream Walking in my LIFE^^

风凉话Go Go Go! 梦加油加油!

最近真的很忙!忙什么,我却真的不是很清楚!只是感觉时间就真的滴答滴答地走,而我却还在原地蹉跎,什么都没有做到!虽然我真的忙个不停!忙什么?我真的无可奉告~因为我真的不知道!
天啊!最近讲话都喜欢绕口令,真的很好玩一下!啦啦啦。虽然忙,日子照样过!嘻嘻嘻!
最近除了忙学校的功课,好奇怪的功课哦!虽然这学期都没有考试,但是assignment还真的很多,而且都超级无比的奇怪!哈哈哈。做专访eh~然后还有做卡片~天啊!真的很可爱!可是天啊!这真的超刺激的!(我不是拿自己的grade来赌哦~)我会努力的!梦娜加油加油加油!要相信自己是达成目标的唯一垫脚石!靠自己!靠自己!!靠自己!!!
其实,还有在忙其他的事情,比如说……自己想创办一间补习中心(目前阶段当然是无牌的^^)没想到,面对的压力其实真的很多。从选地方、用品、桌椅到设计传单,都由自己亲自负责;很多时候还跟爸爸轧上了, %¥*#@~我不是故意的。我明白,老爹他认为他经验比我足,什么都懂;可是我也有自己的想法阿~幸亏我老娘够英明,处处帮助我。嘻嘻嘻!我家的老虎婆真的是越老越聪明、设想得很周到。谢谢你的英明!万岁!哈哈哈
其实这不是最糟的。你知道吗?有一种人,他们喜欢在你决定做某些事情时,甚至是你只是在打算的时候,就已经知道了全盘的事。然后到处散播,好的没关系,不知道的也乱说,毁人名声。这还不要紧,他们不了解不知道,可以原谅他们的无知;但是最让人气愤的是,还在那里说风凉话!说你办不到,说你这说你那,不知道的也装知道说出来,还以为自己真的很懂你!天啊!!!真的吃不消!
还有更吃不消的!!!我的天啊!一说到这,我这个温柔的梦姑娘都快变成个疯子了!非说他不可!天啊!!!
要说风凉话,请到其他地方说。但是你知道吗?这些人偏偏选在你窗外,在你眼睛都还没张开的时候,就叽叽喳喳说个不停,深怕你会听不见。你气愤吗?所谓一天之计在于晨,一早起床心情就不好,你还有心情做其他事吗?老虎不发飚,你还真的以为我是病猫?反正被吵醒了,就趁他们还在说风凉话的时候,把窗帘拉开。“咻”的一声,外面就没有声音了——帘开人散。
有时候,我真的不怪他们。他们读书少,所以知识也不多,知书达理程度无法达到我们现今社会的标准,不懂得如何控制自己的嘴巴和嫉妒欲,所以才会这样说风凉话。他们不知道:“道人是非者,亦是是非人。”既然你们没有内涵,谈话内容也当然一样,所以无所谓啦,我姑娘心宽一点,就不计较了。没内涵的东西记得多了,自己反而被误导,变成没水准了!所以,
我不想听,
不会听,
干吗听?
就不去听,
不要听你们的那些冷言冷语。
风凉话 go go go!梦娜加油加油加油!!!
你们越是不看好我,我越是努力做给你们看。一向来都知道,你们嫉妒我的才干,毕竟到现在为止,都还没有人破我的纪录,我一向都很优秀,你们才眼红呗~
人红是非多,我懂^^如果我不红,你们哪会七早八早就在‘妒忌’我呢?我不发威不代表我笨,我只是忍住,身为一个有内涵的人,是不会与你们动口的。天啊!真的觉得自己好坏,好像在说别人坏话。不知道的人还以为我捏造谎言扮可怜叻~我现在是说人是非者马?哈哈哈
你不知道的是,我就像根野草,你们越是想把我踩在脚底,我越是长得高~也许有天还会比你们还高,挡住你们的视线。那时真的是,哈哈~不好意思啦~光芒盖掉了你。
我要让你们知道,我爸爸妈妈生的女儿是最棒的!
风凉话你们爱说多少就说多少。说得越多,那只是证明你们越没内涵!
风凉话go go go!梦娜加油加油加油!你是最棒的!
真想给自己一个吻!有谁能代替我给自己一个吻呢?哈哈哈
大家加油!
我们都是幸福的!!!

我的一号爱人

他从来都不是个伟人;他甚至比平凡的人还要更平凡。关于他的点点滴滴,我也只是从他口述中得知。他幼时家境贫穷,他很小就帮忙家里寻找生计;也因为家里供不起,他的学历并不高。虽然如此,他很努力工作,给我们他所能够给予的。
因此,我爱他。
他好像什么都没有;没有房、没有地也没有钱。但是,他从不曾让我们挨饿。只要我想吃的,想要的,他都会尽可能满足我。他常说:“女生胖一些比较好看。”有时,肚子饿了,懒惰病却发作,尤其是打工回来,身心疲惫时,就算厨房已经空荡荡,他依然有办法变魔术,把牛奶变出来。也许有一天,我们会穷得连牛奶也买不起,但是我相信,只要我饿了,就算把他身上的肉割下来他都在所不惜。
所以,我很爱他。
他是个十足的大男人,比牛还固执,只要是他认为对的,无论如何他都会争论到底。我也很执着,两头牛已吵架,战火比世界大战还要激烈,就像全世界都快摧毁了似的。但是,最后他都会先让步,说:“你赢你赢!”虽然心里还是非常不服气。他固执,我就比他更固执。因为我明白他遇见我就像冰遇到火——溶化了。他对其他人都无法忍让,理直气壮,唯独对我忍气吞声。
就这样,我更爱他了。
他很爱碎碎唸;从东唸到西,从早唸到晚。尤其是我乱花钱的隐犯了的时候,他更是从街市唸到回家,从吃饭唸到睡觉。除此之外,他很会挑,总是嫌东嫌西。每当我说我想送他礼物,他总会责备我奢侈。但是,固执如我,哪会理他的劝。很奇怪的是,他从来都不会嫌弃我送的任何礼物,而是很欣然、很高兴、很惊喜地一一接受。我很清楚,他其实也很想有时能有个人在特别的日子里送些礼物给他。人之常情嘛!任谁都是这么想的!只是,他不想我把辛苦赚来的钱都花掉,所以才选择口是心非。
因此,我非常地爱他。
我不喜欢别人抽烟,他却偏偏饭后一根烟,屡劝不改。每次答应戒烟后又抽烟,所幸的是他没有越抽越凶,不然我铁定把他的香烟换成饼干!虽然他有一大堆的坏习惯,什么都没有,但是他很体贴。他晓得做家务的繁琐,所以他不认为家务是女人的责任而把它推向我。反之,他常常帮忙洗衣、收衣服、叠衣服……他从不因而觉得丢脸,还努力的劝说其他大男人做家务。在他的感染下,好多对家务有歧视的男人都开始了他们的家务之旅。
他的了解,让我不得不爱他。
我从来都没有对他说过我爱他;他也不曾对我说类似的话。不过,从他的言行、我的举止中,就能看出那无可取代的爱。除了满得快溢出来的爱,我不会忘记他常告诉我说:“做人要知足。”想对他说:“虽然你什么都没有、什么都不是;可是对我而言,你是一切。因为有你,所以我存在。”
也许在未来的日子里,我会离开,会到外头闯荡,拥有自己幸福的家。即使是这样,也没有人可以改变或代替他在我心里的位置,他永远都是我的一号爱人。因为有他,所以有我。
很感激他,我那最敬爱的爸爸。
也借此祝贺全天下的爸爸:“父亲节快乐!”

p/s:
这篇稿子在19。06。2011的诗华日报《文林风》刊登出来,很高兴能和大家分享^^我爸爸很疼我,就算我是家里最大的,就算我比其他弟妹麻烦~嘻嘻嘻……

Gordon Gathering 09.06.2011


 It was a gathering with some of my classmates and next door classmates at Life Cafe, Jalan Song. Well, I did not know why it was called "Gordon Gathering", but most probably because Gordon was the one who organised the gathering.hahaha. Gordon was our monitor from form1 to form5.
I just simply dressed up myself for the gathering after my work at 10pm! Actually I missed the gathering at Hartz Chicken because I have to work, so 2 of my friends said they are going to meet me later for another cup of tea. well, it turned out with all of those who went to the gathering to Hartz Chicken came to Life Cafe as well. Adumak~ so many friends over there, was quite shocked at that moment.hahaha. there were friends that I had not meet for a long time, like Naomo, Shirlene, Chai Yun, Jimmy and Dickson.
well, around 16 of us, sitting together at the combined tables, chit chatting along and playing game. My gosh!

My friends thought I have not had my dinner yet.well, I never missed the nice food.hahaha. so I ordered a 'chuan cai' mee. a bit spicy but if compared to this spicy noodle, mine is really not a big deal!
this is the special 'ma la' mee where they added 2 plates of additional 'ma la' sauce and extra noodles. and they are going to play a game, well, i considered it a game rather than a trick,hahaha. we play 'scissors, stone and cloth' and those who lose had to eat the noodles!hahaha. Because our group was too big so we divided ourselves into 3 small groups.
I was so unfortunate that I was actually winning all the time so I did not have to eat the noodles, but once I said it out "I always win so I do not have to eat", AHA! It came and I lose! hahaha.

 this is a shoot with Li Xian, one of my best friends.
then, we were too bored. And did not know why, the guys suddenly talked about taking photos with hand gesturing numbers. then, here came us to take photos with numbers!

 
Then they asked us compete see who will win. Hmm, well, later on, facebook vote shown that guy's photo won out! and most of them think that is because of the 5th person, Jimmy's  flying kiss as the main key to win.
well, girls' photo is not bad as well.hahaha

A shoot of my dear friends. Shirlene has never changed, she likes to do expression like this.(the one from right)
then, before we went off, we had a group photo. these are all my good friends and I enjoyed so much with them. The cafe was fulled of our laughter and we did not care whether other customers were annoyed or not.
It was a lovely night.
thanks.
Good luck and gambate to all of them!
all the best!
Jia You!

Kevin & Jess's Wedding! 05.06.2011

5.6.2011, Sunday was my cousin, Kevin's wedding. wow, it has been a week and I just posted it here. Well, I was busy (most of the time and I do not know why)hahaha. It was really a memorable wedding as a lot of cousins came back from other places to attend his wedding. And the wedding ceremony hold somehere near Hui Sing( I forgot the name of the place, I only know it is a church association). That night my sister and I were helping at reception place, and the crowd was so huge that we had to keep smiling and ask people to sign. hahaha, but the experience was good.
Before the ceremony, we had our gathering first in the morning at his house. not much thing to do, just chit chatting and had a feast.hehehe. Not bad. Of course, not forgotten to take some pictures, especially with the main character, the bride!!!
this is one of the picture we took with the bride, she is pretty, isn't it?
 Well, main characters were meant to be busy. Therefore we had not much time to spend with her. So, we just shot ourselves,as all of us would like to, as the camera and iphone were on our hands.hahaha. Why should we lose the opportunity?hahaha.so, we had the non stop shooting session within ourselves.
this is a photo of my family girls: from the left is my beloved mum, 1st sis and 2nd sis.well, all of us do not look alike. hehehe
a closer view of my female siblings: 1st sis, me, 2nd sis.
"mouth du du". hahaha then i just followed, don't really like to act cute though,hahaha
and then, is my big family female photo! the middle lady with red dress is my cousin, she is pretty and knowledgeable. and she is 30 but can you see any aging mark on her face?hahaha she is just like us,YOUNG! and nobody ever says she is not pretty! hahaha
later on, we were so boring and AHA, we saw something!
it was the bride's flower! hehehe.
1,2,3... there were 16 altogether.hahaha, we took this picture on puppose, can you see that? not being shot but asked for shoot.hehehe. so HIPPOCRATES!hahaha
Around 12 something, after the lunch, we went home. We left only some time to prepare ourselves for the ceremony that night, and what made us all mad was that, the current suddenly being cut off! URGH! You know how suffering was that? Luckily I had finished making-up, but those who haven't were really %$@#*... hahaha. After that we went to saloon to set our hair. As all of us went to the same saloon, so the saloon was full of our family members. The scene was a bit funny, it was like our home and we walked here and there and took picture,hahaha.
and this is me, after setting my hair.
quite ok la but my fringe was like, 'HuH? sengek ki~'
and I like this pic because I am sweet in this pic, lalala. taken with my 2nd sis. hehehe
We were actually late for the ceremony as we had to help at the reception place. Fortunately there were not many guests yet when we arrived. so we quickly prepared ourselves and then, crowd started to come in.
Around 7pm, we went into, by following the brides. But I do not have the pictures of that moment, it must be funny.
As we had our meals, we still did not forgot to shoot ourselves some pictures. hehehe. We were holding the wine glass and my sis was drinking wine, as I am allergy to alcohol so I used cola to cover up! hahaha.
then, in the middle of the feast, we were actually somewhat full already. Then we kept asking people for group photo. This was a photo of girls AGAIN.hahaha well, what to do, my family is full of pretties.hehehe.
AGAIN! Group photo of Pretties!wakakaka. well, the prettiest was the bride la~ hahaha. I like her hair decoration so much! hahaha. this photo was taken after the feast, where most of the guests went back already. Only family members left for photograph sessions. hehehe. 
Actually I had taken some of my own family pictures but they were in another camera, so, I CAN'T upload it here! hahaha. Next time perhaps? hehehe.
well, It was tiring, but it was nice as all of us gathered together and chit-chatting. But I bet the brides must be veerrryyyy tired lu! hehehe. 
 well, who will be the next one who marry? Certainly would not be me! Marriage is not in my dictionary yet.hahaha.
so,
Good luck and Gambate!
Have a nice day!

单身贵族

其实爱情这个词对我来说并不陌生。周遭的人一而再,再而三的问我、提醒我它的存在,只是,缘分不到,谁也不能改变什么。
有时候,会觉得很孤单/很寂寞,为什么每个人都有个伴但我就是没有。很好笑的想法,真的觉得自己很傻。可是这只是很短暂性的“孤寂”。寂寞寂寞就好,真的。没有人会一辈子都感到孤单。
现在,对我而言,爱情的力量已经削弱了,有没有爱情,都无所谓。我不再执着,不再在乎其他人的看法。二十岁没有男朋友并不可耻,那只是证明我很认真的对待爱情。而且啊,一个人自由自在,自己赚自己花,自己要去哪里就到哪里,不需要对任何人许下诺言,更不需要担心有谁可以容易的影响自己的生活和情绪及担心自己面孔身材不够好而节食化妆>做自己最好!哈哈哈
所以啊,还是赚多点钱,当个单身贵族吧!朝我的好多好多梦想大大步的跨上去,任谁也不能有机会当我的绊脚石。我可是二十一世纪的强女生叻~ ^^
单身的我,并不会觉得没有爱情的滋润而感到不漂亮;相反的,我觉得自己越来越美了,而且随着年龄的增长,自己越来越成熟,也越来越有魅力了。独立如我,并不想因为有了伴而变得小鸟依人(因为我知道,如果有了依靠,自己肯定无法独立>.<)哈哈哈。我要吃好多好多想吃的,不需要顾虑别人的看法;吃了好多好多好吃的食物以后,我还要能维持自己的身段(虽然现在也没有苗条到哪里去,但至少不要“恶化”就好了。啦啦啦)

目标:明年一定要sexy!哈哈哈。腰围小两吋就够了!
其实单身有什么可怕的呢?单身不就是自己一个人吃饭/逛街/看戏听歌/看书……嘛~自己做自己的事情,只专注在自己的事情上,不需要鸡婆别人的事,不用为别人的事而烦恼。还很不错的啦~哈哈哈

目标:1.我要在5年内转到RM100,000,然后买间至少5房的房子给我家人!
2. 我要买Camry给我爸爸驾!然后我给他载!嘻嘻嘻   
3. 我要在五年内和家人合伙开餐厅,名字叫饭桶、水桶、面桶!
4.我要用我赚到的钱的一部分捐给人,或设立一个机构帮助有需要的人!
5.我要在两年内(2013年第一个学期)完成我的Degree课程!然后再半工读修我的master!
总之,我要赚好多好多的钱,最少要10万块!这些事情,需要很多的精力来完成,我没多余的时间给家人以外的人,除非那是个能体谅我的男生,不然看见我这副德行,三天肯定走人!哈哈哈。更甚的是,只有在单身的时候,我才能专心的读书赚钱,如果有个人半路杀出来,我肯定会分心撞车,哪里还会有机会成功达到我的目标呢?哈哈哈
所以啊,我还是享受单身的生活吧!寂寞的时候,找朋友聊天,不然看书写作也可以消磨时间,还可以练练文笔赚赚钱,何乐而不为呢?哈哈哈
单身,并不茫然。
单身,夜才更美丽.
单身,生活可以更精彩^^
加油吧!单身的朋友们!
一定要幸福噢!